The Psalmist’s exclaimed a deep
sigh of discontent: “Why are you cast
down, O my soul, and why are you in turmoil within me? Hope in God; for I shall
again praise him, my salvation and my God.” (Psalm 43:5, ESV)
In his book Winning Life’s Toughest
Battles, psychologist Julius Segal wrote about the 25,000 soldiers who were
held by the Japanese in POW camps during World War II: "Forced to exist
under inhumane conditions, many of them died. Others, however, survived and
eventually returned home. There was no reason to believe there was a difference
in the stamina of these two groups of soldiers. The survivors, however, were
different in one major respect: They confidently expected to be released
someday." As described by Robins Readers in Holding On to Hope, 'They talked
about the kinds of homes they would have, the jobs they would choose, and even
described the kind of person they would marry. They drew pictures on the walls
to illustrate their dreams. Some even found ways to study subjects related to
the kind of career they wanted to pursue.'" Hope rises out of utter hopelessness
and can only be appreciated when seen from this standpoint, thus hope produces its
best fruit when fully trodden down.
What’s going on? Allow me to
share some statistics that I’ve come across to demonstrate this state:
- Over 25,000 Americans commit suicide each year. Over one million will try but only one out of fifteen will succeed. It is the tenth highest killer in the U.S. More will die by suicide than by murder.
- The model age for attempting suicide is 32 for men and 27 for women. The model age of succeeding is 50-54 for men and women.
- Men kill themselves twice as often as women, but women attempt suicide twice as often as men.
- There are over 5,000 suicides among teen-agers each year.
- Some 10,000 college students will attempt suicide in a year. It is the second highest cause of death among young people aged 15-24 surpassed only by accidents.
- Thirteen young adults each day consider life not worth the living. That is twice as many as ten years ago and three times as many as twenty years ago.
- One report indicated that as many as 12 percent of all school-aged children will contemplate suicide at least once in their formative years.
What can we do to counter such trouble?
Here’s some specific suggestions for consideration (a) Realize that there are hopeless
situations in our lives and in this world that can cause probing questions
within: “Why are you cast down, O my
soul, and why are you in turmoil within me?” (b) The only remedy that a
genuine believer of God can declare is “Hope
in God!” (c) There must be a constant renewal of dependence on God’s wisdom,
saving power and sovereignty: “…for I
shall again praise him, my salvation and my God.”
How can we affect others and to
encourage them to hope as well? Let’s start by learning to empathize and tell
others to “Hope in God” as Jesus did with others in a hopeless situation. At
the cross, Jesus empathize by dying in our behalf while He sympathize with Mary
and Martha at the death of Lazarus when he wept. Thus, we must attempt to alleviate
hopelessness around us and to follow Jesus’ example that He set for us to do. Speak
constantly of one’s “Hope in God” like Jesus did in the midst of a hopeless
situation. Exhibit evidences of what “Hope in God” is all about through
worship, joy and courage.
Lastly, here’s a poem by John
Maxwell from “Think on These Things” to express this level of hopefulness and to
be known by others:
Hope shines
brightest when the hour is darkest.
Hope
motivates when discouragement comes.
Hope
energizes when the body is tired.
Hope
sweetens while bitterness bites.
Hope
sings when all melodies are gone.
Hope
believes when evidence is eliminated.
Hope
listens for answers when no one is talking.
Hope
climbs over obstacles when no one is helping.
Hope
endures hardship when no on is caring.
Hope
smiles confidently when no one is laughing.
Hope
reaches for answers when no one is asking.
Hope
presses toward victory when no one is encouraging.
Hope
dares to give when no one is sharing.
Hope
brings the victory when no one is winning.
Let’s talk again!